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The mind-body connection: Breaking free from chronic pain

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Suzanne Locke 16 April 2025
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Gemma McFall of Recovery Lab, the first Pain Reprocessing Therapist in the Middle East, recently shared with NOORA members how anxiety, stress and chronic pain are connected – and how understanding this can help you recover.

Ms McFall was herself an HR director who suffered debilitating back pain for a decade; she discovered the mind-body approach to pain recovery just before undergoing spinal surgery, resolved her back pain in three months and decided to retrain as a result.

Pain in the workplace – in numbers

The facts are eye-opening:

  • One in five adults has chronic pain
  • 80 percent of adults will experience back pain
  • 148 million people worldwide suffer from chronic migraine
  • Migraine is 3x more common in women
  • 595 million adults live with arthritis worldwide
  • 12 billion working days are missed each year to anxiety (at a cost of $1 trillion).

For busy professionals, especially women juggling many roles, chronic pain adds another challenge to an already full schedule.

As Ms McFall says, “The pressure of accomplishing and delivering when we have so many roles as women… it’s a lot to balance and it’s very difficult to manage when you’re not feeling well.

“You have to be Superwoman at work, Superwoman at home and then Superwoman on the weekend. Then with chronic pain too, you have to put this brave face on, which is exhausting.”

Graphic of a quote from Gemma McFall for a blog post about chronic pain with NOORA and Aurora50 logos, and a graphic showing five boxes for stats with the facts: • One in five adults has chronic pain • 80 percent of adults will experience back pain • 148 million people worldwide suffer from chronic migraine • 595 million adults live with arthritis worldwide • 12 billion working days are missed each year to anxiety.

Pain in the workplace – in numbers

The facts are eye-opening:

  • One in five adults has chronic pain
  • 80 percent of adults will experience back pain
  • 148 million people worldwide suffer from chronic migraine
  • Migraine is 3x more common in women
  • 595 million adults live with arthritis worldwide
  • 12 billion working days are missed each year to anxiety (at a cost of $1 trillion).

For busy professionals, especially women juggling many roles, chronic pain adds another challenge to an already full schedule.

As Ms McFall says, “The pressure of accomplishing and delivering when we have so many roles as women… it’s a lot to balance and it’s very difficult to manage when you’re not feeling well.

“You have to be Superwoman at work, Superwoman at home and then Superwoman on the weekend. Then with chronic pain too, you have to put this brave face on, which is exhausting.”

Graphic of a quote from Gemma McFall for a blog post about chronic pain with NOORA and Aurora50 logos, and a headshot of Gemma McGFall with the text: “All pain is created in the brain. If we can learn to have pain, we can ‘unlearn’ pain by creating new neural pathways.” Gemma McFall, Pain Reprocessing Therapist, Recovery Lab

A new way to think about pain: it starts in your brain

The biggest discovery in pain science is simple but life-changing: “all pain is created in the brain,” says Ms McFall. This doesn’t mean your pain isn’t real – it absolutely is real – but knowing where it comes from changes how we treat it.

Ms McFall explains that chronic pain (any pain lasting more than three months) is a “learned response”. Just as after learning to ride a bike, we never forget how to ride, “for some people pain and anxiety is the same learned response”.

“The good news is that if we can learn to have pain, it’s a neural pathway,” she adds. “Because of the brain’s neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to adapt and change its structure and function”, we can ‘unlearn’ pain by creating new neural pathways.”

Importantly, Ms McFall stresses that you need to rule out acute injuries before beginning pain reprocessing therapy (PRT) and that life-threatening conditions – such as cancer, autoimmune disorders and infections – need to have been ruled out by a healthcare professional.

The pain-fear cycle

At the core of chronic pain is what experts call the ‘pain-fear cycle’. Pain causes fear, which then causes more pain, creating a loop that’s hard to break.

This is how stress, anxiety and pain are linked. While some stress is normal and even helpful – “we need some level of stress in order to drive us,” says Ms McFall -problems start when stress doesn’t go away.

“Ongoing stress becomes chronic stress and then chronic stress very quickly turns into anxiety,” she adds. “It’s not about the here and now, it’s ruminating thoughts – ongoing panic about the future or regret or shame from the past.”

For many busy people, feeling anxious seems impossible to manage. “We cannot afford to feel anxiety,” Ms McFall says. “So instead we may get physical pain.”

This happens without us knowing it: our brain finds it easier to create physical pain than to deal with difficult feelings.

Why some people get chronic pain

Not everyone who feels stress develops chronic pain. Certain types of people are more likely to get it, says Ms McFall, including “high achievers, highly responsible, big empaths, very analytical people, people that tend to overthink a lot.”

Sound like you? These are the same traits that make someone successful at work.

“These high-stress personality types are amazing in the corporate world. But they are also the type of personality traits that are going to fuel that fear cycle,” Ms McFall explains.

The drive for perfection that helps you excel at work may be the same thing keeping you in pain. High achievers are used to fixing problems through hard work, says Ms McFall, so when pain continues despite their efforts, they get frustrated and then they over-think – making the pain-fear cycle stronger.

Graphic of a quote from Gemma McFall for a blog post about chronic pain with NOORA and Aurora50 logos, and the text '4 steps to freedom from pain' with a quadrant stating 'pain', 'personality', 'past' and 'practical'.

Four steps to freedom from chronic pain

Ms McFall shares a ‘freedom from pain’ model with four steps:

  1. Pain – Know your pain type and patterns: Does it come and go? Does it move around your body? Is it worst at a certain time or after a bad night’s sleep? These signs often mean the pain is coming from your brain, not physical damage.
  2. Personality – Understand your personality: Learn how your natural traits – such as being a people pleaser, competitive, highly empathetic, a perfectionist, non-confrontational, sensitive or overly responsible – might add to the pain-fear cycle.
  3. Past – Look at past stressors: Events experienced in childhood or as an adult can affect your nervous system for years – such as parents divorcing, bullying, moving countries, boarding school, financial difficulties, relationship break-ups or a redundancy.
  4. Practical – Use daily techniques: Simple practices can help calm your nervous system and break the pain cycle.

Simple tools you can use today to help with your chronic pain

For busy people with packed schedules, Ms McFall offers quick techniques you can use anywhere:

  • The physiological sigh: Two sniffs in and one long slow breath out (as if you’re blowing out through a straw). This simple breathing method is the fastest way to calm your nervous system; it can even be done during meetings.
  • Label your emotions and feelings: Using an emotions wheel (easily found online), identify what you’re feeling – and the layers of those feelings. “The more you practice this, once you label it, your brain will calm down and again, help regulate the nervous system.”
  • Write it down – then bin it: Spend time first thing in the morning when your brain is “wide open”, writing your honest thoughts on scrap paper (journalling) – and then rip it up and throw your note away. “Any emotion that we’re holding on to carries an awful lot of weight,” Ms McFall says, adding that she did this every day for 45 days straight.
  • Gratitude practice: Just before you go to sleep, write down the things you’re most grateful for every night. “The reason gratitude is so important in dealing with anxiety and chronic pain is that our brain defaults to the negative,” says Ms McFall. “There’s no way your brain is going to let you sleep when it’s detecting a threat – but there’s no actual tiger in your room that’s going to eat you.” Gratitude helps you feel safer.
Graphic of a quote from Gemma McFall for a blog post about chronic pain with NOORA and Aurora50 logos, and the header '4 simple tools' - 1 The physiological sigh 2 Label your emotions 3 Journal... then throw it away 4. Gratitude practice

The science shows it works

When pain strikes, you have a choice, says Ms McFall. “We’re trying to train your brain, as it’s the brain creating this signal. You don’t always need to be scared of pain.”

By continuing normal activities when it’s safe to do so, you tell your brain there’s no danger, gradually retraining your pain response, she adds.

In a 2023 study of pain reprocessing therapy reported in JAMA Network’s open-access medical journal, 151 adults aged 21-70 who had chronic back pain for an average of 10 years were given either pain reprocessing therapy for eight weeks or a placebo (saline water injections).

Some 66 percent of participants reported being pain-free or nearly pain-free after pain reprocessing therapy, compared with 20 percent of people who received the placebo.

For professionals managing busy careers and chronic pain, this research offers hope. Understanding your brain’s role in creating pain helps you take back control, reduce suffering, and reclaim your time and energy.

As McFall shares from her own experience: “I was so mad that I lost years and years of my life because nobody told me about this. Now there’s a lot we can do about it.”

For more information or to take a quick quiz to see if your pain might be brain-based, visit gemmamcfall.com. 

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